मंगलवार, 22 फ़रवरी 2011

"Women Is Not a Mean Of Dowry Man!!!"

Dowry-A self imposed trend in our Indian society..Well..Broaden thoughts of people with leading tym somehow lessened this curse..but still few areaz are dere where dowry is still a high lighted curse..Where a father cant celeberate the birth of his daughter birth..but console himself and prepare himself for  future  pressures..when his daughter will grown up.and how he will have to tackle all circumstances to satisfy guy’z family..Father gets upset while he think about how much he have to save for dowry..Sheh!!!Bihar is one of those city where.dowry is most popular trend..and all have to follow that..otherwise fear catch all of them who will marry their daughter.
                          Women, an Angel sent to the earth by god. But it’s a great doubt arise in many minds whether they are treated so in this world. The most powerful evidence to support this doubt is the practice of dowry system in India.  In spite of modernization and the increasing role of women in all walks of life, the practice of the dowry in India is becoming widespread, and the value of dowries is increasing. If a bride’s family fails to pay the amount of dowry demanded by the prospective groom’s family, the bride will be cruelly treated by the in-laws, and in many cases will be burnt to death. The dowry system is the curse to the women society.One always wants to know how cruel humans can be, well, if really there is a desire as such, then come to Bihar and look to the cruel money eaters who burn women just due to the cause of dowry money. Not only before the marriage, there is so much insult of the girl's father, but even after the marriage, there are thousands of cases which tell us the story of dowry death. As per an average view of people, after the marriage, the family of the bridegroom starts to torture the girl, better say, "Bahu" of the girl to bring more money or goods in the form of dowry. When the girl fails to do so, they even tend to kill the girl just for that sum of money. And here goes the 'beautiful' definition for dowry death - A death of a person, mainly a girl, due to the cause of dowry is referred as dowry death. Silenced by their culture large populations of women in India tolerate abuse and subsequent death because they have provided insufficient dowry. In a culture that is male dominated women are raised to be servants to their husbands often arranged to marry a man that they have never met. Women that are beaten or just unhappy must suppress their feelings to keep their husbands blissful or face shame and be turned away by their own families.
When asked  many old people that why take dowry, many of them say that it is just because it is the boys family only who is going to care for the bride in future, when she leaves her house and lives in the house of her husband. It is just like some money to care for her only, but people take it another way, they say. If this is so, that one is going to take money to use for the same person, then why use words like love and care. It is useless to be so. Some say that it is to meet the need of the father of the bridegroom just because he spends so much money to educate his child son. If this is true, then doesn't the girl's father spend money in educating his daughter, does the society let her buy everything for her daughter for free.
We could easily witness, what harm dowry did to the society in India. It had created a reign of terror and seeing this government had banned this thing and had announced it to be a big problem in India and today is a crime to take or give dowry. But ignoring this fact, it is not wrong to say that even today, it persists to threat humanity. How can be someone so cruel that burn a person, just for the sake of money? Can anyone be so cruel that shoot one's wife just for dowry and just enjoy her burning or dying? This is what money can make one when it becomes a greed.
I have seen this so many times in the paper, that another girl suffered 'death' due to dowry and news such as this. If we read the newspaper, we can definitely find such a similar news every month. Due to such things and traditions, Bihar has lost it's good image in front of many unbiased states (in term of such discrimination). I think that it is we who can protest this, it's the people of Bihar and Jharkhand who can protest this. Women and men are the two eyes of the world. Both should be treated equally. Lets all join hands to safeguard the living angels on earth. Lets our whole world shine.